Two Types of Locks

I think there are two types of locks in this world. Locks that protect something precious behind them. Locks that protect you from something dangerous behind them. Type 1 locks are the kind banks put on safes and vaults, and you put on your home to keep out robbers and thieves. Type 2 locks are the kind zoos put on the door leading into the lion enclosure, or the government puts on a fence surrounding a military shooting range. ...

One False Pleasure to Another

I’ve noticed a rather commonly held belief among men who flock to porn recovery forums. It seems many of these men, particularly the college-aged variety, regard it as a healthy behaviour and a sure-sign of recovery to hook up with strangers or people they barely know for sex (as an alternative to using porn). Whenever I come across such posts, I’m always skeptical of two things: one of the author’s authenticity, and two of his sincerity. ...